This is long pause in my posts and another long pause in my heart. You know, as if the rhythm was broken. Generally speaking, I come to the conclusion that we should avoid 'as usual' positions.
When you get used to anything, then this is the first step to make loose it.
But not about it.
A couple of days ago we talked (with my mom) about sacrifice. Frankly, I do not like this word, as well as the concept. No sacrifice in a relationships, it is my belief .
Somehow I disturbing to my family that I am not married. Strange for me to get married just because I should do it. It is also strange to have children just because I should. In relation to children it is not only strange but also cruelly. It is generally accepted that the parental instinct awakens in you as soon as you take the baby in your arms. This is nonsense. Most films with a tearful melodramatic endings are the tools for maintain the fiction of social significance of moment. Women should not become a mother as a result of mental or physical abuse. From my point of view, the mother - this is not a social role, and not the position in the global corporation, this is a state of mind, the way of the senses. It is impossible to wake up as mother one morning.
Physiologically - definitely yes. You will have a certificate which will be written "Mother." But what changes?
Why today do women give birth later in life? This is not a fixation on a career, as is commonly assumed.
Quite simply, we have a lot of the older generation of women, our mothers and grandmothers, aunts, etc who have became mothers by 'coincidence'. Today's generation is sated by sacrifices.
Finding conventional balance in life - this is the only solution.
I do not think it is a high degree of manifestation of fatherly feelings when a parent gives a child to understand what was laid on the altar of his upbringing.
Is This self-justification of failure as a parent or as a professional?
New generation of women is not mad in they feminist ecstasy. No.
I dare to hope for more meaningful actions; and no more the sacrificial scaffold for other's strange notions of 'right things'.
Grem
When you get used to anything, then this is the first step to make loose it.
But not about it.
A couple of days ago we talked (with my mom) about sacrifice. Frankly, I do not like this word, as well as the concept. No sacrifice in a relationships, it is my belief .
Somehow I disturbing to my family that I am not married. Strange for me to get married just because I should do it. It is also strange to have children just because I should. In relation to children it is not only strange but also cruelly. It is generally accepted that the parental instinct awakens in you as soon as you take the baby in your arms. This is nonsense. Most films with a tearful melodramatic endings are the tools for maintain the fiction of social significance of moment. Women should not become a mother as a result of mental or physical abuse. From my point of view, the mother - this is not a social role, and not the position in the global corporation, this is a state of mind, the way of the senses. It is impossible to wake up as mother one morning.
Physiologically - definitely yes. You will have a certificate which will be written "Mother." But what changes?
Why today do women give birth later in life? This is not a fixation on a career, as is commonly assumed.
Quite simply, we have a lot of the older generation of women, our mothers and grandmothers, aunts, etc who have became mothers by 'coincidence'. Today's generation is sated by sacrifices.
Finding conventional balance in life - this is the only solution.
I do not think it is a high degree of manifestation of fatherly feelings when a parent gives a child to understand what was laid on the altar of his upbringing.
Is This self-justification of failure as a parent or as a professional?
New generation of women is not mad in they feminist ecstasy. No.
I dare to hope for more meaningful actions; and no more the sacrificial scaffold for other's strange notions of 'right things'.
Grem
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